Independence - what does that mean?
It doesn't mean to do what you want to do even if it's wrong, but it does mean to do what you like, what you enjoy, and be able to do it on your own and to push aside all obstacles you encounter.
Independence, or just freedom is a key word for a modern man. I mean, everybody wants to be free, and nobody can stand when someone else tries to control him. Especially in the world of democracy. And it's very usual situation for normal human-being.
But sometimes you feel as if you're not who you are, you are someone that the others creating, directing, and even using.
And here are some tips how to keep your independence:
-Don't let anyone manage you. Always be self-controlled and know measure in everything.
-Always know what you are doing and why. It helps you to build "a shield" against needless directions given by some people.
-Find a job (if you don't have one) and work hard. Financial independence is the base.
-Listen to advice, but don't take it too close.
-Remember, you have your own way of fulfilling your plans.
-But if you can't prove why you're doing something and why you're doing it in particular way, better don't start it until you find answers to those questions, otherwise you'll get lost and weak, weak enough to be manipulated.
-Develop your self-esteem. It's time you realized the value in yourself and in what you're doing.
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